When Do You Need Grief Counselling?
If grieving has taken control of your day-to-day life and left you without the ability to cope with daily demands, then finding the necessary help through grief counselling is crucial. Grief counselling can help you identify your issues and help you recover.
If you have had to deal with a major loss, then the grief that follows is a normal emotion to experience. Any type of loss can trigger sadness and grief including the loss of a job, the death of a family member, the demise of a pet or a move that takes you away from familiar surroundings. Acceptance of the loss and moving forward through the grief process is what allows you to cope and heal emotionally.
Grief is a double-edged sword because it makes us more aware of what we still have to be thankful for in the midst of the sadness that results from an important loss. The most important fact to remember is that you have to accept the situation before you can begin the process of emotional healing.
Grieving for a loss is a normal and natural reaction, and is simply an extension of our human feelings and emotions. This type of suffering is very painful, and very personal. People will grieve intensely when they have to face the death of a loved one, but many individuals also experience grief when they:
- Give up on an important goal, or a long-anticipated dream
- Face a serious illness
- End a relationship
- Lose their financial assets
- Move out of their parental home for the first time
Grief can also manifest as physical symptoms such as headaches, GI upsets, vague aches and pains or loss of appetite. These symptoms should resolve with time; if not, grief counselling is indicated.
Can Grief Counselling Help You?
Read our more extensive article on Grief and Recovery on our blog to learn about the five stages of grief, grief counselling, and how counselling can help you heal emotionally.
If you are looking for help, whether for yourself or for a loved one, the psychologists at the centre can assist in exploring underlying issues through therapy. Please visit practitioners’ page to find out more, or call (03) 9820-5577 for an appointment or to make enquiries.
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If you are looking for help, whether for yourself or a loved one, our psychologists can assist in exploring underlying issues through therapy. Please visit our practitioners’ page to find out more, or call (03) 9820-5577 for an appointment or to make enquiries.
Psychologists at the Centre for Emotion Focused Practice
Lara Ryan
Child, Adolescent & Adult Psychologist
I am a registered psychologist that works with individuals of all ages to really get to the heart of what it is they want and need to live a full life.
Virginia Henningsen
Registered Psychologist
I assist individuals in developing skills to manage their lives, gain enjoyment from their life, and lift and bolster their general feeling of well-being.

Lyn O’Grady
Child, Adolescent & Adult Psychologist
As a Registered Community Psychologist, I have worked with parents in community settings for approximately 10 years as well as with children and young people in school settings for 10 years.

Susanne Goldie
Psychologist
I work with a wide range of individuals in a non-judgemental, holistic way to understand each person’s unique circumstances and support them in achieving their goals. I work with people of all ages.

Hannah Lethbridge
Registered Psychologist
I provide a warm environment for clients to express their thoughts, feelings, and struggles in a safe way. My clients value the collaborative approach I take when we work towards their therapeutic goals.
Geoff Newbegin
Counselling Psychologist & Psychotherapist
I am an experienced counsellor and psychologist with over 15 years of experience, which includes a wide range of clinical experience.
Christine Hayes
Clinical Psychologist and Educational & Developmental Psychologist
I provide psychological therapy services for adults, including parents, and for adolescents.
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Lucas Silva-Myles
Registered Psychologist
My therapeutic approach is firstly to hear your story and understand what you are going through without judgement.
Hannah Kroussoratsky
Counsellor
Gentle, caring and encouraging, my desire is to truly hear your story and create a safe space for you to grow and flourish. I have a genuine commitment to your whole self – body, mind, heart and spirit – and my integrated therapeutic approach allows for your holistic care and transformation.